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When someone says 'I’m just being more,' it feels like they’re pushing a bit harder to make sure you notice them. It’s not just about being different, it’s about carving out space in a room that already feels crowded with opinions and ideas.

In the workplace, 'being more' can come across as a soft push for leadership. You see it when someone starts taking credit for the team’s work but doesn’t fully step up to take the lead, kind of like nudging for a promotion without asking for it outright.

On social media, 'being more' is everywhere. It’s that person who starts using new slang just to stand out, or someone who adds a third emoji to their posts so no one forgets they exist. It’s not just about being seen, it’s about being the most seen.

In relationships, 'being more' can feel like one person trying to outdo the other. It shows up in little ways, like when one person mentions they have a busy week, and the other quickly points out they’re juggling even more. It’s a quiet way to say, 'I’ve got more going on than you.

Among friends, especially younger ones, 'being more' is almost like a game. It’s who can be the most chill, or the most hip, or the most into the latest trend. It’s not overt, but there’s a bit of competition hidden in every offhand comment and hashtag they choose.