The word-based description for "🤷‍♂️🙅‍♀️🔽" is a perplexed person (🤷‍♂️) and a woman gesturing "no" (🙅‍♀️) with a downward arrow (🔽). "Fob off" means to deceive or dismiss someone by giving them an unconvincing or unsatisfactory explanation or excuse.